About The Third Option Program

The Third Option is a skills-based program that helps participants build stronger, more fulfilling relationships. Each 14 session cycle covers a comprehensive set of topics (one topic each week) that people can use to develop better understanding, sensitivity and trust while also learning more effective speaking and listening skills.

The Third Option is based on Self Change… how can you make both your current and future relationships better? Come to the Third Option Class!

Why this is important…

The skills learned in the Third Option can and will bring couples closer together than they ever thought possible. However, the Third Option is NOT just for couples; individuals may attend alone.  If you are divorced or are currently going through a divorce, chances are that you will be in another relationship down the road. If you are like most of us, you will take your “old baggage” into that new relationship.  The Third Option is a program that can help us clean up that old baggage so that we don’t take it into other relationships and make the same mistakes over and over again.

The Third Option class combines skill-building workshops with sharing from couples that have “been there”, in combination with a support group component. The atmosphere is warm and caring.

The 14 Topics
  • Building a Climate of Respect
  • Ending the Blame Game
  • Understanding Expectations
  • Redefining the Power Struggle
  • Coping with Control Issues
  • Listening Beyond the Words
  • Appreciating Personality Differences
  • Handling Anger Constructively
  • Speaking the Truth in Love
  • Learning How to Fight Fair
  • Breaking the Hurt Spiral
  • Forgiveness and Repair
  • Rebuilding Trust
  • Recognizing Childhood and Emotional Baggage

The 14 Topics

  • Building a Climate of Respect
  • Ending the Blame Game
  • Understanding Expectations
  • Redefining the Power Struggle
  • Coping with Control Issues
  • Listening Beyond the Words
  • Appreciating Personality Differences
  • Handling Anger Constructively
  • Speaking the Truth in Love
  • Learning How to Fight Fair
  • Breaking the Hurt Spiral
  • Forgiveness and Repair
  • Rebuilding Trust
  • Recognizing Childhood and Emotional Baggage

Common Questions:

HOW MUCH IS THE CLASS?

The first two weeks are free; after that, there is a suggested donation of $10 per person, per week. If finances are a problem for you, come anyway – no one is ever turned away due to lack of funds.

IS THERE CHILDCARE?

We’re sorry but childcare is not provided.

HOW DO I SIGN UP FOR THE CLASS?

RSVP by calling us ahead of time at 714-706-4250, or by registering online using the “Register” button at the bottom.

WHEN?

Every Tuesday evening, 6:30pm – 8:30pm (Pacific Time).

WHERE?

The class is a “simulcast”, meaning it meets “in-person” AND online using “Zoom” every Tuesday night. The in-person class meets at:

Fullerton Free Church
North Campus Room 120
2904 N. Brea Blvd. (near Rolling Hills Drive)
Fullerton, CA 92835

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