Each topic faces a balancing act. A relationship can be off balance in either direction. There are 2 unhealthy extreme ways of handling each topic and there is a healthy middle: The Third Option.
Opposites attract. It very often happens. We tend to “fall in love” with someone who complements us. There may be pressure to change, which feeds a constant tension. Why? Because we are different. We don’t want all the same things. We don’t think or feel or act the same. We can begin to feel stuck. Because an intimate relationship involves 2 different people, tension between 2 different ways of thinking is built right in. When we feel this tension, it is not because there is something wrong with our relationship/marriage, it’s because it is the nature of it!
Join us to learn The Third Option and how to work your way there, to the healthy, middle solution.